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心理解密:哭泣不是示弱是勇敢
发布时间:2011-01-26 02:56     来源:君健网

    “哭泣”常被人当做是一件很丢脸的事情,或者是一件灾难发生后的充分表现,“哭泣”让人感觉晦气和悲哀,总之,人人讨厌“哭泣”!其实偶尔的“哭泣”对身心都大有好处,这点您有过耳闻吗?

    适时哭泣意味着勇敢

    美国明尼苏达大学心理学家威廉·弗莱对哭泣做了5年的研究,结果显示,一个月内,男人最多哭7次,而女人的流泪次数则超过30次。以色列特拉维夫大学进化生物学家哈森说,哭泣是一项人类高度进化的行为。和语言一样,只有人类才有真正意义上的哭泣。

    尽管悲和哀是最强大的"催泪弹",但除此之外,喜、怒、惧都能让人落泪,比如,太害怕了会哭,太高兴了会哭,还有被气哭的。应该说,所有这些都是人类一种正常的行为反应。

    哈桑最近的一项最新研究发现,眼泪甚至可以发送自我保护的信号。它会模糊人们的视线,防止自己对别人做出攻击性行为;同时,又能显示自己的脆弱,让对方降低戒心和敌意,不会随便做出伤害行为;进一步讲,对方看到一张流着泪的脸,也会引发怜悯之情,进而不自觉地给予支持。

    哭泣是进行情感沟通的一种重要手段

    另一方面,哭泣是进行情感沟通的一种重要手段,可以建立起人与人之间的联系。你当着别人的面肆无忌惮地流泪时,就等于在发出这样的信号:我正在与你一同分享我最脆弱的情感,你看到了我最真切的一面。对方看到这一切,则会认为,你信任他,双方可以成为朋友。

    当然,哭泣并不都代表脆弱,它可以帮助人体释放压力,对于维持身体健康和精神平衡大有裨益。比如婴儿用哭泣来促进肺的成长,女人爱哭泣而比男人更长寿。 弗莱做了一个有趣的试验:他让一组人看感人的电影,并收集他们因感动而流下的眼泪;让另一组人切洋葱,收集他们因辣眼而留下的泪水。结果发现,因感动而流下的"情感眼泪"中含儿茶酚胺成分,"反射眼泪"中则没有。弗莱指出,儿茶酚胺是大脑在情绪压力下释放的一种化学物质,如果在体内积聚太多,就容易增加患心脑血管疾病的风险。

    “哭泣”是情感的宣泄,想哭的时候,不必忍耐,此时将“眼泪”及时排除不仅让您的身心放松,更能给身体和心理"排毒"。所以莫要“强颜欢笑,把泪吞!”适时的“哭泣”也是勇敢的表现!

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