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单亲母子相处的五大模式
发布时间：2011-05-26      来源：健康时报

　　姐弟型

　　你们一起去逛街旅行，总是会吓坏身边的陌生人：妈妈这样年轻，儿子这样活泼？你是心态美好的后青春妈咪，当然你也会照顾他，但不是事事亲历亲为。通常你们间的对话会是这样：喂，晓龙快帮我洗一个苹果——瞪什么眼？你忘了我才给你买了一个悠悠球？

　　情人型

　　大男人离开了，不过好在身边还有个小男人。你越来越爱他，甚至终于发现居然还从未这样地爱过一个男人。于是，你很久无处撒的娇与嗲，便通通冲着身边这个正在成长的男人大派用场，“妈妈今天工作太累了，快来帮我捶捶背”之类的无理要求日新月异。这样的好处是，你们更能享受到别样的充盈的母子爱，而小男人能在青春期时更正确地面对来自异性的诱惑。

　　安慰型

　　是谁离开谁都不要紧，最要紧的是儿子和你一起成长。多数女人都是随着孩子一起成熟的，而对单身妈妈来说，儿子到底是个男人，在天生胆小怕黑不懂打理家务的妈妈面前，儿子是她们的安慰，反之亦然。

　　朋友型

　　首先是妈妈引导了儿子，妈妈对美式教育全盘接受，所以儿子可以直呼妈妈朋友的名字，妈妈则要求儿子对她无话不谈。他们之间有非常多的礼节性的用语， “请、谢谢、对不起、我想和你谈谈……”的运用率非常高。儿子不是妈妈的全部，而是最重要的朋友，欢迎儿子提出对衣着甚至新男友的意见，同时妈妈也会积极鼓励儿子去交自己的朋友。

　　寄托型

　　像我们最经常看到的那样，妈妈因为家庭少了男人支撑，便将所有梦想和未来的重担都寄托在儿子身上，倾尽所能让儿子参加各种兴趣班，并付出除工作外的所有精力时间给儿子。他们之间的关系相当紧密，儿子很小就意识到必须为妈妈的面子争光，通常都会较早熟，而处于这种关系之中的妈妈通常很难再展开一段新的感情生活。

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